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candygramme ([personal profile] candygramme) wrote2009-01-11 12:28 pm

I am in shock

One of my best friends has just died.

For those of you who knew [livejournal.com profile] sharonmarais, her husband, John just called me to tell me of her death and ask me to let people in fandom know.

She had the bug that all of us have been fighting off. Felt a little better and returned to work (in a hospital no less) and then felt really horrid on Thursday night. She went to the docs, who told her it was just a virus and to go home and rest.

It was meningitis, and it killed her. She died yesterday at 2:15pm UK time in the hospital at Cambridge.

If you wish to send a sympathy card, let me know by email alyosha303 at gmail dot com, and I will send you the mailing address.

[identity profile] kes1807.livejournal.com 2009-01-11 08:47 pm (UTC)(link)
OMG that is really tragic news, I didn't know her but have seen her name around lj.

*hugs*
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[identity profile] phantomas.livejournal.com 2009-01-11 08:49 pm (UTC)(link)
OMG.
I knew her...not personally or closely, might have exchanged just a handful of comments, but we ran in similar circles....am shocked.
Brit docs, sometimes, can be really dangerous, they underestimate lots of things. I'm shocked and angry. :((((
So sorry, too :(

[identity profile] frayen.livejournal.com 2009-01-11 08:51 pm (UTC)(link)
Oh honey that's awful, I am so sorry!

I met her once at the Jason Manns gig in Portsmouth, she was so nice.

[identity profile] jensenite.livejournal.com 2009-01-11 08:53 pm (UTC)(link)
That's horrible. I didn't know her, but I'm so sorry you've lost a good friend.
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[identity profile] phantomas.livejournal.com 2009-01-11 08:54 pm (UTC)(link)
And yes, can you send me the mail address, please?

[identity profile] telleer.livejournal.com 2009-01-11 08:55 pm (UTC)(link)
Oh my god; I'm so sorry to hear that. That absolutely should not have happened. I didn't know her personally, but I'm still upset.

[identity profile] sinkwriter.livejournal.com 2009-01-11 08:57 pm (UTC)(link)
Aw, man. What the hell, Sue? How did this happen? *shaking head* This is terrible news.

I didn't know Sharon very well, hadn't talked with her in quite a while, but we were part of the same yahoo group (for baking and cooking and recipes, a group called 'well-loved-recipes' on yahoo) and she had just sent a message to us a couple weeks ago, a Christmas card. She was so kind and thoughtful. A great and lovely lady.

I am so sorry for your pain and loss.

[identity profile] hay1ock.livejournal.com 2009-01-11 08:58 pm (UTC)(link)
What? No? OMG.
I'm so sorry to hear that. I mean she like commented on something only the other day at my lj, friended me after asylum last year. Just...
Again i'm so sorry hun. Send my love to her family.
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[identity profile] not-refined.livejournal.com 2009-01-11 09:03 pm (UTC)(link)
Oh god, darling, I can't believe it. :( She was such a sweetheart. *sigh* It makes me so angry that things like this happen.

Hugs to you, honey. I'm just so sorry.

[identity profile] englishblue.livejournal.com 2009-01-11 09:05 pm (UTC)(link)
OMG. I'm so saddened. You and her family have all my sympathy. What a terrible thing to happen.

[identity profile] inlaterdays.livejournal.com 2009-01-11 09:07 pm (UTC)(link)
Oh, my God. I am so sorry for your loss. I didn't know her but I have seen her name around. She was in two of my fandoms before I got there and seemed so nice.

That is just tragic. :(

[identity profile] m-lasha.livejournal.com 2009-01-11 09:23 pm (UTC)(link)
I am so sorry, sweetie.

Hugs to you and her family.
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[personal profile] calime 2009-01-11 09:52 pm (UTC)(link)
I'm so sorry for your loss...

[identity profile] rocketbalm.livejournal.com 2009-01-11 09:55 pm (UTC)(link)
omg that's just so horrible. My thoughts and prayers are with her family. Just so unbelievably sad.

[identity profile] takemeuseme.livejournal.com 2009-01-11 10:02 pm (UTC)(link)
Sue, I am so very sorry for your loss.

This is Jacki, BTW.

[identity profile] fleshflutter.livejournal.com 2009-01-11 10:13 pm (UTC)(link)
Oh I'm ever so sorry to hear it! I hope you're doing okay. *hugs*

[identity profile] ruric.livejournal.com 2009-01-11 10:17 pm (UTC)(link)
OMG I am so sorry babe.

Met her at gigs a few times and she was a lovely lovely person - so warm and friendly.

Please yes do send me an addy so I can bounce on a sympathy card. Will e-mail you too!

[identity profile] bulleteyes.livejournal.com 2009-01-11 10:23 pm (UTC)(link)
Very kind and thoughtful at such a heartbreaking time for her husband to call you. Says a lot about how she felt about you.

My sincere regrets for the loss of your dear friend.

Unbelievable that she worked in a hospital and no one knew.

[identity profile] parthenia14.livejournal.com 2009-01-11 10:30 pm (UTC)(link)
Oh, my god, that's just absolutely terrible. Ruric just passed the message on. I am so very very sorry, I didn't know her very well but I thought she seemed such a lovely warm person.

Would like to send a card if I may. parthenia14 at gmail dot com. Ah sorry, just read your note, will email you.

I am so sorry.

[identity profile] realscape.livejournal.com 2009-01-11 10:40 pm (UTC)(link)
I can't believe this. She's always been such a supporter of my writing, and such a positive person, even after her car accident. I know she loved Vancouver with you this year. This has made me so sad. Can you pass on my love and sadness to her family...and if there's an address for cards, please let me know.

[identity profile] tru-faith-lost.livejournal.com 2009-01-11 11:11 pm (UTC)(link)
Oh gosh, I don' t know her personally, but I've seen her EVERYWHERE and I saw that you did a cowrite with her around Christmas. I'm so sorry honey, that's... just awful.

*hugs you*

[identity profile] jdsmylover.livejournal.com 2009-01-11 11:15 pm (UTC)(link)
OMG, that's terrible and shocking. I know Sharon from Jason's gigs (I'm one member of Slique Events) and I'm really sad about this. If it's ok with you I'd like to let Jason know. If you (or her family) would rather I didnt I wont say anything.
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[personal profile] ravurian 2009-01-11 11:20 pm (UTC)(link)
Oh Sue, Sue. I'm so very sorry. I liked her a lot. I only met her once, but we were getting to know each other quite well on LJ, I thought. I'm so terribly sad.

May I have an address to send a card to, please? ravurian AT hotmail DOT com.
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[personal profile] gigglingkat 2009-01-11 11:45 pm (UTC)(link)
I can't imagine the pain her family's in.

How are you holding up?

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