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One of my best friends has just died.

For those of you who knew [livejournal.com profile] sharonmarais, her husband, John just called me to tell me of her death and ask me to let people in fandom know.

She had the bug that all of us have been fighting off. Felt a little better and returned to work (in a hospital no less) and then felt really horrid on Thursday night. She went to the docs, who told her it was just a virus and to go home and rest.

It was meningitis, and it killed her. She died yesterday at 2:15pm UK time in the hospital at Cambridge.

If you wish to send a sympathy card, let me know by email alyosha303 at gmail dot com, and I will send you the mailing address.
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Date: 2009-01-11 08:47 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] kes1807.livejournal.com
OMG that is really tragic news, I didn't know her but have seen her name around lj.

*hugs*

Date: 2009-01-11 08:56 pm (UTC)
ext_19186: Dean the demon hunter (Dean tears)
From: [identity profile] candygramme.livejournal.com
I've known her for years. She'd come stay here in Vancouver with me, and I'd go home and stay in Cambridge with her. We spent last May stalking Steve, Jason and Riley around England, and this November she came over here to stalk Jensen and Jared. I will miss her soooo much.

Date: 2009-01-11 08:49 pm (UTC)
ext_5650: Six of my favourite characters (Default)
From: [identity profile] phantomas.livejournal.com
OMG.
I knew her...not personally or closely, might have exchanged just a handful of comments, but we ran in similar circles....am shocked.
Brit docs, sometimes, can be really dangerous, they underestimate lots of things. I'm shocked and angry. :((((
So sorry, too :(

Date: 2009-01-11 08:51 pm (UTC)
ext_19186: Dean the demon hunter (Non-Fannish Moral High Ground)
From: [identity profile] candygramme.livejournal.com
Angry doesn't even begin to express how I feel.

It just goes to show that nothing is safe.

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Date: 2009-01-11 08:51 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] frayen.livejournal.com
Oh honey that's awful, I am so sorry!

I met her once at the Jason Manns gig in Portsmouth, she was so nice.

Date: 2009-01-11 08:58 pm (UTC)
ext_19186: Dean the demon hunter (Dean tears)
From: [identity profile] candygramme.livejournal.com
She wrote a lovely article about Jason after that gig in Portsmouth.

We spent last May stalking Steve, Jensen and Riley around England, and then she came over here so we could stalk Jensen and Jared. I am glad she got to meet them all before she died.

Date: 2009-01-11 08:53 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] jensenite.livejournal.com
That's horrible. I didn't know her, but I'm so sorry you've lost a good friend.

Date: 2009-01-11 09:00 pm (UTC)
ext_19186: Dean the demon hunter (Both hearts)
From: [identity profile] candygramme.livejournal.com
I think you met her at the Chicago con. She came and sat with us for a while.

Date: 2009-01-11 08:54 pm (UTC)
ext_5650: Six of my favourite characters (Default)
From: [identity profile] phantomas.livejournal.com
And yes, can you send me the mail address, please?

Date: 2009-01-11 08:55 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] telleer.livejournal.com
Oh my god; I'm so sorry to hear that. That absolutely should not have happened. I didn't know her personally, but I'm still upset.

Date: 2009-01-12 10:31 pm (UTC)
ext_19186: Dean the demon hunter (Both Love)
From: [identity profile] candygramme.livejournal.com
Thank you. It is senseless, isn't it?

Date: 2009-01-11 08:57 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] sinkwriter.livejournal.com
Aw, man. What the hell, Sue? How did this happen? *shaking head* This is terrible news.

I didn't know Sharon very well, hadn't talked with her in quite a while, but we were part of the same yahoo group (for baking and cooking and recipes, a group called 'well-loved-recipes' on yahoo) and she had just sent a message to us a couple weeks ago, a Christmas card. She was so kind and thoughtful. A great and lovely lady.

I am so sorry for your pain and loss.

Date: 2009-01-11 08:58 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] hay1ock.livejournal.com
What? No? OMG.
I'm so sorry to hear that. I mean she like commented on something only the other day at my lj, friended me after asylum last year. Just...
Again i'm so sorry hun. Send my love to her family.
x


Date: 2009-01-12 10:30 pm (UTC)
ext_19186: Dean the demon hunter (Dean Cries)
From: [identity profile] candygramme.livejournal.com
Yeah, she was a big fan of your stuff. We were all ready to storm Asylum again this year. As it is, I wonder if I should go. Thanks for the love though. I'll pass it on.

Date: 2009-01-11 09:03 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] not-refined.livejournal.com
Oh god, darling, I can't believe it. :( She was such a sweetheart. *sigh* It makes me so angry that things like this happen.

Hugs to you, honey. I'm just so sorry.

Date: 2009-01-12 10:29 pm (UTC)
ext_19186: Dean the demon hunter (Dean Cries)
From: [identity profile] candygramme.livejournal.com
I must admit to a fair amount of anger too. Thank you for the words of comfort.

Date: 2009-01-11 09:05 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] englishblue.livejournal.com
OMG. I'm so saddened. You and her family have all my sympathy. What a terrible thing to happen.

Date: 2009-01-12 10:28 pm (UTC)
ext_19186: Dean the demon hunter (Dean Cries)
From: [identity profile] candygramme.livejournal.com
Thanks. I'll pass on your words to her family.

Date: 2009-01-11 09:07 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] inlaterdays.livejournal.com
Oh, my God. I am so sorry for your loss. I didn't know her but I have seen her name around. She was in two of my fandoms before I got there and seemed so nice.

That is just tragic. :(

Date: 2009-01-12 10:27 pm (UTC)
ext_19186: Dean the demon hunter (Dean Sin)
From: [identity profile] candygramme.livejournal.com
Yeah, she was lovely, and I'll miss her. Thank you.

Date: 2009-01-11 09:23 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] m-lasha.livejournal.com
I am so sorry, sweetie.

Hugs to you and her family.

Date: 2009-01-12 10:26 pm (UTC)
ext_19186: Dean the demon hunter (Sam pouts)
From: [identity profile] candygramme.livejournal.com
Thanks, babe. I'll pass that on to her family.

Date: 2009-01-11 09:40 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] sparklebutch.livejournal.com
I am so sorry. :(

Date: 2009-01-12 10:26 pm (UTC)
ext_19186: Dean the demon hunter (Both hearts)
From: [identity profile] candygramme.livejournal.com
Thank you!

Date: 2009-01-11 09:52 pm (UTC)
calime: Duncan, Tessa, Richie, Fitzcairn scattering Darius's ashes into Seine, text: dust in the wind (dust in the wind)
From: [personal profile] calime
I'm so sorry for your loss...

Date: 2009-01-12 10:25 pm (UTC)

Date: 2009-01-11 09:55 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] rocketbalm.livejournal.com
omg that's just so horrible. My thoughts and prayers are with her family. Just so unbelievably sad.

Date: 2009-01-12 10:25 pm (UTC)
ext_19186: Dean the demon hunter (Alec broods)
From: [identity profile] candygramme.livejournal.com
Thanks. I'll pass on your thoughts to her family.

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Date: 2009-01-11 10:02 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] takemeuseme.livejournal.com
Sue, I am so very sorry for your loss.

This is Jacki, BTW.

Date: 2009-01-12 10:24 pm (UTC)
ext_19186: Dean the demon hunter (Dean Demon eyes)
From: [identity profile] candygramme.livejournal.com
Hi, Jacki! Thanks for the message. How are things with you? It's been a while.

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From: [identity profile] candygramme.livejournal.com - Date: 2009-01-15 06:50 am (UTC) - Expand

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Date: 2009-01-11 10:13 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] fleshflutter.livejournal.com
Oh I'm ever so sorry to hear it! I hope you're doing okay. *hugs*

Date: 2009-01-12 10:23 pm (UTC)
ext_19186: Dean the demon hunter (Default)
From: [identity profile] candygramme.livejournal.com
Thanks. I am a little dopey right now, but I'll be fine. *hugs back*

Date: 2009-01-11 10:17 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] ruric.livejournal.com
OMG I am so sorry babe.

Met her at gigs a few times and she was a lovely lovely person - so warm and friendly.

Please yes do send me an addy so I can bounce on a sympathy card. Will e-mail you too!

Date: 2009-01-12 10:22 pm (UTC)
ext_19186: Dean the demon hunter (Dean tears)
From: [identity profile] candygramme.livejournal.com
Hi, Jo: I know I have your email addy somewhere...

But I'm damned if I can find it, so here you go.

Mr. John Marais
54 Fortescue Road
Cambridge CB4 2JT

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From: [identity profile] ruric.livejournal.com - Date: 2009-01-19 02:00 pm (UTC) - Expand

Date: 2009-01-11 10:23 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] bulleteyes.livejournal.com
Very kind and thoughtful at such a heartbreaking time for her husband to call you. Says a lot about how she felt about you.

My sincere regrets for the loss of your dear friend.

Unbelievable that she worked in a hospital and no one knew.

Date: 2009-01-12 10:21 pm (UTC)
ext_19186: Dean the demon hunter (Dean Nightmare)
From: [identity profile] candygramme.livejournal.com
Thank you, babe. I don't think we have enough friends to be able to lose one.

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From: [identity profile] bulleteyes.livejournal.com - Date: 2009-01-12 11:42 pm (UTC) - Expand

Date: 2009-01-11 10:30 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] parthenia14.livejournal.com
Oh, my god, that's just absolutely terrible. Ruric just passed the message on. I am so very very sorry, I didn't know her very well but I thought she seemed such a lovely warm person.

Would like to send a card if I may. parthenia14 at gmail dot com. Ah sorry, just read your note, will email you.

I am so sorry.

Date: 2009-01-11 10:40 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] realscape.livejournal.com
I can't believe this. She's always been such a supporter of my writing, and such a positive person, even after her car accident. I know she loved Vancouver with you this year. This has made me so sad. Can you pass on my love and sadness to her family...and if there's an address for cards, please let me know.

Date: 2009-01-12 10:20 pm (UTC)
ext_19186: Dean the demon hunter (Dean Cries)
From: [identity profile] candygramme.livejournal.com
I'm kinda dopey at the moment and can't remember if I send you the address, but if not, it's:

Mr. John Marais
54 Fortescue Road
Cambridge CB4 2JT

And your writing rocks!

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From: [identity profile] realscape.livejournal.com - Date: 2009-01-12 10:56 pm (UTC) - Expand

Date: 2009-01-11 11:11 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] tru-faith-lost.livejournal.com
Oh gosh, I don' t know her personally, but I've seen her EVERYWHERE and I saw that you did a cowrite with her around Christmas. I'm so sorry honey, that's... just awful.

*hugs you*

Date: 2009-01-12 10:18 pm (UTC)
ext_19186: Dean the demon hunter (Dean Cries)
From: [identity profile] candygramme.livejournal.com
Yeah, We only ever wrote that one story together. Usually I bugged her to beta my stuff, although she didn't really care for credit. Thanks for your hugs.

Date: 2009-01-11 11:15 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] jdsmylover.livejournal.com
OMG, that's terrible and shocking. I know Sharon from Jason's gigs (I'm one member of Slique Events) and I'm really sad about this. If it's ok with you I'd like to let Jason know. If you (or her family) would rather I didnt I wont say anything.

Date: 2009-01-11 11:22 pm (UTC)
ext_19186: Dean the demon hunter (Default)
From: [identity profile] candygramme.livejournal.com
Hi there:

Yes, please let Jason know. I know Sharon had written some articles about his music, and her loss is going to mean that won't happen again. I am totally devastated.

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From: [identity profile] jdsmylover.livejournal.com - Date: 2009-01-11 11:34 pm (UTC) - Expand

Date: 2009-01-11 11:20 pm (UTC)
ravurian: (fallen angel)
From: [personal profile] ravurian
Oh Sue, Sue. I'm so very sorry. I liked her a lot. I only met her once, but we were getting to know each other quite well on LJ, I thought. I'm so terribly sad.

May I have an address to send a card to, please? ravurian AT hotmail DOT com.

Date: 2009-01-12 10:16 pm (UTC)

Date: 2009-01-11 11:45 pm (UTC)
gigglingkat: sing for the laughter, sing for the tears (Gen requiem)
From: [personal profile] gigglingkat
I can't imagine the pain her family's in.

How are you holding up?

Date: 2009-01-12 10:16 pm (UTC)
ext_19186: Dean the demon hunter (Dean Cries)
From: [identity profile] candygramme.livejournal.com
I'll be fine, but it definitely does hurt. Thank you.
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